It’s another aspect of “letting go” and releasing ones “attachments’ to the person they feel needs them. When people finally become aware of their circumstances, they need to accept responsibility for their initial choices and deal with the consequences as such. Being in denial, they will try to use the ”oh poor me” tactic to get an empath to do their bidding.
As an empath, you have the innate ability to hear, see and know what others don’t hear, see or know. The other thing is that Empaths want to help others that they see in trouble or about to get into trouble. It’s a frustrating position, and one that is needed in order to “let go” of those that don’t want to see or hear the truth.
When dealing with heartbreak, besides the issue of attachment is one of expectation, and projections. Your point of power is in the present moment, but if your consciousness is in the past, lamenting about what you lost, or projecting into the future and lost hopes, dreams and desire, what you could have had what you expected. Life is a journey, like a river flowing where time and space are moving. What you experience in one moment is not the same, as in the next moment as time and space have moved on, and you can’t go back. Since birth, we have been taught and programmed to believe that our happiness and self-worth depends on people, place and things. When they are taken away, we feel lost and heartbroken.
Besides fear of physical people, places and things, empaths also have fear of non-physical things, one being the word, authority. It begins with our parents, siblings, relatives, friends and moves out for there. Using the present Covid plan-demic as an example of how the government, medical and media use the words “authority” and “expert” as a tool to create the illusion that they have power over those that buy into their fear-mongering tactics, that manipulate herd mentality to follow their dictates.
When people are activated into their issues, they go into denial and re-act by either going into a fight, flight or give up mode. If your imprint is to fight, as soon as you’re activated, your denied anger and rage will be triggered. Hidden under your denied anger and rage is your denied terror; what you are afraid of that triggered you. For an empath, a confusing issue is how do you respond to a psychopath coming at you, or a person that you know is loving, but has been activated and is in denied anger and rage.
Betrayal doesn’t just come to you out of the blue. You have doubts and suspicions, but instead of expressing yourself, you deny and carry on hoping that your intuition is wrong. When a feeling of doubt comes up, your mind is consciously aware of the feeling but denies it. The feeling comes up three times in total. When it’s denied expression the third time, like in the game of baseball, you’re out, your mind is in the gap, and it goes on auto-pilot according to its imprints, programs and beliefs. All this happens in the blink of an eye. The key to healing is in spotting and ending one’s denials.
When you were born, you weren’t born with any religious beliefs or traditions; they were taught to you by your parents and others. Religion, like government, is organized. Religion tries to be a substitute for spirituality and as such, has rules and Belief Systems (BS) that they use to control you. When you identify yourself as etc., “I Am a Catholic,” you accept their BS as a part of who you are, and not as something that you are experiencing.
I begin to explain how the government, through your birth certificate that your parents felt obliged to submit to the government, controls you. Your birth name ie, “Jane Doe”, appears on all government documents as “JANE DOE.” The Government is a fictitious entity, an artificial construct and not a person. The secret to the success in being society controllers, is that they have made you believe that Jane Doe is JANE DOE, and that you have to comply to their rules and mandates.
Denied anger and rage is the most common form of expression. The anger and rage that is easily identified is where there are verbal threats and/or physical violence. What is harder to identify is when it’s disguised as passive aggressive, where they “act” loving, kind and nice, but underneath it all is their wanting to manipulate and control you. For an empaths that feels the unlovingness, what they need to do, but what is also one of the hardest things to do, is to give yourself the benefit of the doubt by asking the person, “What is your intent?” Doing that clears the air and their control over you. Narcissists are great ones at using passive aggressive techniques.
As an empath, part of your fear and terror is that you are unloved, rejected, threatened and attacked, just to name a few issues. Those that are attacking you might be physically aggressive or passive aggressive. Their attack is two-fold. One is to have you activated into your denied fear so that they can manipulate and control you so that they can feed on the love energy that you are denying. And the second reason is that as long as you are in denial and fear their disproval and wrath, you will not express the love that you are, as the presence of love terrifies them.
The most common heartbreak for an Empath is the lack of love, of being accepted. Empaths try to fit in, but unbeknownst to them, they’re trying to fit in with people that are not loving. The real problem is that you’re afraid to challenge the unloving people that you are trying to fit in with, that are controlling and manipulating you. Instead, you try to be like them and that doesn’t feel good either.
Society bases ones identity and worth on their vocation and financial status. Becoming aware that this does not define who and what you are, is an important step to self-empowerment.
Empaths forget that they’re a spiritual being having a physical experience and are not what society (the system) identifies them as. By buying into a false identity, like “I am a carpenter” etc, you set yourself up to the belief that what you are experiencing is who you are, and in that, you judge your self-worth by how much money you earn to make a living.
There are many forms of anger and rage. Most of the anger and rage that is expressed is denied anger and rage. While you may be a person of loving essence, when you are in denial, the anger and rage that you express is unloving. You do have loving anger and rage, but the difference between the two is that unloving anger and rage wants to attack and control another, whereas loving anger and rage is there to protect you from unloving anger and rage.
Grief is the feeling of loss, of a person, place or things, There are several aspects involved in grief and heartbreak, the first being shock and disbelief, followed by denial, pain, remorse, guilt, anger, bargaining, and then acceptance. After the initial process, it starts all over again but not in a similar pattern. Underlying heartbreak is an attachment to the person, place or thing that fulfilled you, that gave you pleasure or happiness in some form or another. Attachments are not loving, while having a connection is loving.
The side effects of the so-called Covid Vaccine are now coming into full view. This is just the proverbial tip of the iceberg, as the mRNA begins destroying the bodies immune system.
This morning, an old image I had posted of the Sandy Hook school that was demolished, popped up on my FB account. I immediately associated it with 9/11 and how the towers were also removed. Later, I realized the pattern that had been forming since 9/11. The pattern is.
They are all planned events and a propaganda tactic to install FEAR in the mass-consciousness of humanity, and it worked. When most of the dumbed-down public swallowed the official 9/11 story, it was a “GO” to implement the rest of the NWO agenda.
So, what’s happening now? Have you noticed that “they” have all three TERROR threats going at the same time? Foreign terrorists – Russia war with Ukraine. Domestic terrorists and mass shootings, and of course, the new variants of Covid.
Just an intro to a HUGE topic, and one that Empaths can relate to.
A common trait of empaths is that they go through life putting other peoples feelings and needs ahead of theirs in order to make them happy, believing that that makes them a kind and loving person.
SV -104F – Fear of Water (2) is an addition to the previous video SV-103F. I’m finding it difficult to cover all that I want to say, as I could write a book just on fear… The other thing is that fear and terror are not stand-alone issues, as there is also anger and rage and heartbreak issues involved, as real healing is a multi-layered process. And even if you may deal with the combination, that’s not to say there is more that needs to be resolved at a later time and place.
When one has a fear of say, “water,” water is not the problem. The problem is the unresolved traumatic “experience” that you had with water. How you heal the fear is to have an experience that will shock and activate you. When that happens, if you can have the awareness that it isn’t the “same” experience that traumatized you, that it’s an opportunity for you to re-live that shocking moment and feel and express everything that was denied, healing can happen. Later, you will have another experience with water, but this time you will have the awareness that you are not “re-acting,” but are “responding” to the experience.
I’ve changed the direction of my blog as the meme’s state… It’s no use trying to wake people up anymore as to what is happening around them. Most of the mass-consciousness of humanity has turned a blind eye and deaf ear to the reality facing them and are consumed with self-gratification, and continuing with their lies, omission, avoidance and denial. The old world reality can’t be forced to change, and those that don’t choose to change themselves, will remain in it to experience what they desire.
For those that are “quickened,” and can see and feel the illusion they have been calling reality, and where it’s headed, it’s time to move to the next level or phase, and begin to create a new reality, through self-empowerment… This is the direction I’m now taking with my Blogs and Vlogs, as the real change that needs to take place is not in the outer reality, but within.
In this video, I discuss fear and its many forms, in particular, fear of water. I created a “Table of Contents” on my website shenreed.com where you can also get more information on my blogs, books and these videos. You can also clink on Vlogs in the menu.
Fear is like a door, behind which are lost parts of your emotional being. Most fears can be traced back to an unresolved traumatic experience, where you denied and suppressed the feelings and emotion you were having in the moment. Later, and until the issue is resolved, avoiding facing your fear creates anxiety and also limits your and others life experiences. Opening the door takes love and courage and with that intent, healing is possible.
To heal and empower yourself, you have to be willing to do what you’ve never done before, and includes doing the opposite of what you have been doing. You need to challenge everything you believe to be true, especially about love, life and your feelings and emotions. Intent has to be real and heartfelt, or it’s just an act.
SV-102G Intent to Heal – is my second Vlog dealing with the Empath’s dilemma. I created a “Table of Contents” on my website shenreed.com where you can also get more information on my blogs, books and these videos.
The unseen power of WORDS, and how easily PROGRAMMED most of humanity has become to blindly OBEY the dictates of the few that have taken the position of RULER and controller.
Becoming aware of your “I AM” statements is critical to freeing yourself from the matrix of the WORDS that hold you in your present denial-based reality. The video below should give you some “food for thought” on how powerful words are.
2022 March 30 5:30 am – People that are employed by a corporation are ACTORS and ACTRESSES. They are following the script they are given to do their job and for that, they receive monetary compensation that they can then use to buy and do the things they desire to do or have. Their job is identified by mass consciousness with the phrase, “What do you do to earn a living?” As if living is something that you have to earn by working for a corporation, that, in exchange for hours of your mental, emotional and physical energy, grants you with a token called “money” that you can use to get others to exchange their energy for.
You’re only an EMPLOYEE and under the control of the CORPORATION as long as you agree to be an EMPLOYEE. But… if you quit, any promises, vows or oaths you made in order to become an employee, these still chain you to the corporation, and breaking them can have consequences, depending on the energy and denials present. One needs to be aware and of what they are agreeing to.
I’m thinking of Shakespeare’s quote;
“All the world’s a stage,
And all the men and women merely players;
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts,
The uniform or label is a mask employees wear to present the false persona they represent. Now a person wears many masks that they believe to be them, depending on their imprints, programs and beliefs, and all these need to be identified and stripped away in order to reveal the true I AM presence; the spiritual being that is having a physical experience in order to be unbounded from the imprints ,programs and beliefs that have been unconsciously or consciously, forced them to become actors and actresses, instead of living the life they desire to manifest and experience.
Their energy fields have become entangled with various forms of unloving energy as well as their own denials of parts of themselves (fragments). The unloving energy needs to be released to go to its right place and denials of self need to end in order to accept and reclaim and reintegrate the lost parts back into ones I AM essence and presence; to become and BE, all that they are.
This reminds me of a dream I had years ago of an iridescent sphere that had become compressed and darkened, with fishhooks that were clinging to cracks and gouges and entangled with lines. Once the attachments (hooks and lines) were released and the cracks (lost essence – fragmentation) filled, the fishhooks and lines could not re-attach themselves and control the sphere.
Time-lines are merging, and it’s coming down to the end of the game for the elites that have been in power for eons. They can’t change the outcome; they can only prolong the game, and that is what is happening right now. However… don’t fool yourself into thinking that you’re going to be “saved” by some miracle because you aren’t in the “elite” or 1% class, those that are the super rich and powerful and also the behind the scene players.
While I say the 1%, it’s far greater than that. The 1% can be compared to the top of a military organization, and then you have all the rank and file beneath them. The order followers, including those that directly or indirectly offer support in any number of ways. The people involved are in every station and walk in life, and most just consider their reality as normal.
There are presently two realities co-existing on Earth in the same space and time. One reality contains those that are loving and empathic and can feel the energy of love. They are loving, open and expansive. The other reality is what forms the elite and their minions. They are unloving, but “act” loving and caring, and are closed and controlling. The problem is that both groups have been trying to change the other, and so far, the unloving elite group have been in control through the use of the unseen role of denial. The thing that gives them power and control over the loving group, are one’s denials, especially the denial of one’s REAL feelings and emotions towards the energy and actions of the unloving group. Denial of real emotional expression is actually submitting or giving your power away to those that want to control you. The count-down is under way and one’s choices are going to determine which reality you will go with.
NOTE: This post has been edited – 2022-03-02
Here is a link to the ORIGINAL INTERVIEW