Just an intro to a HUGE topic, and one that Empaths can relate to.
A common trait of empaths is that they go through life putting other peoples feelings and needs ahead of theirs in order to make them happy, believing that that makes them a kind and loving person.
SV -104F – Fear of Water (2) is an addition to the previous video SV-103F. I’m finding it difficult to cover all that I want to say, as I could write a book just on fear… The other thing is that fear and terror are not stand-alone issues, as there is also anger and rage and heartbreak issues involved, as real healing is a multi-layered process. And even if you may deal with the combination, that’s not to say there is more that needs to be resolved at a later time and place.
When one has a fear of say, “water,” water is not the problem. The problem is the unresolved traumatic “experience” that you had with water. How you heal the fear is to have an experience that will shock and activate you. When that happens, if you can have the awareness that it isn’t the “same” experience that traumatized you, that it’s an opportunity for you to re-live that shocking moment and feel and express everything that was denied, healing can happen. Later, you will have another experience with water, but this time you will have the awareness that you are not “re-acting,” but are “responding” to the experience.
I’ve changed the direction of my blog as the meme’s state… It’s no use trying to wake people up anymore as to what is happening around them. Most of the mass-consciousness of humanity has turned a blind eye and deaf ear to the reality facing them and are consumed with self-gratification, and continuing with their lies, omission, avoidance and denial. The old world reality can’t be forced to change, and those that don’t choose to change themselves, will remain in it to experience what they desire.
For those that are “quickened,” and can see and feel the illusion they have been calling reality, and where it’s headed, it’s time to move to the next level or phase, and begin to create a new reality, through self-empowerment… This is the direction I’m now taking with my Blogs and Vlogs, as the real change that needs to take place is not in the outer reality, but within.
In this video, I discuss fear and its many forms, in particular, fear of water. I created a “Table of Contents” on my website shenreed.com where you can also get more information on my blogs, books and these videos. You can also clink on Vlogs in the menu.
Fear is like a door, behind which are lost parts of your emotional being. Most fears can be traced back to an unresolved traumatic experience, where you denied and suppressed the feelings and emotion you were having in the moment. Later, and until the issue is resolved, avoiding facing your fear creates anxiety and also limits your and others life experiences. Opening the door takes love and courage and with that intent, healing is possible.
To heal and empower yourself, you have to be willing to do what you’ve never done before, and includes doing the opposite of what you have been doing. You need to challenge everything you believe to be true, especially about love, life and your feelings and emotions. Intent has to be real and heartfelt, or it’s just an act.
SV-102G Intent to Heal – is my second Vlog dealing with the Empath’s dilemma. I created a “Table of Contents” on my website shenreed.com where you can also get more information on my blogs, books and these videos.