Use failure as stepping stones. You need to know what does NOT work in order to know what does. Like riding a bike. You need to try new things and FAIL, (fall down) in order to learn what you did wrong, that you will not do the next time. If you keep falling and doing the same thing over and over, then know you are not THINKING and looking for the cause of your failure. And no. it’s NOT the bike or the road you are on, or anything else you might want to blame.
If you really THINK about it, none of these are REAL. They are all artificial constructs of society. Three are based on religion beliefs, and the other on social laws, rules and customs. We blindly live our lives as if they were real and truth. Those in the present position of power know that if you can indoctrinate the mind and control the social Belief Systems (BS), you can control the masses.
This video is a Part-truth… The Rabi went off on a tangent when he said that “self love is a given.” If that were a truth, then we would not have a fish love need to give, to invest part of yourself in another, as that is just the opposite of receiving. Just because it’s the opposite, doesn’t mean it is true. Night is the opposite of day, Hot is the opposite of cold, Dry is the opposite of wet…
To fine the truth, one really needs to THINK and QUESTION what one believes to be the truth and fact. Asking yourself, who, what, where, when, why and how are the basic “mental” tools required to solve a problem. The next criteria to solving the problem is to apply the “mental” concepts to ones physical reality, in other words, to “Walk your talk” to see if what you THINK is really the truth or simply a part-truth that requires more thought and application to uncover the hidden denials.