You don’t love unloving light by ignoring it, or agreeing and trying to befriend it to try to get it to change, to be more loving. You love it by calling it out and being true and loving to yourself, your Will, that just happens to be the only part of your Being that can identify it for what it is. Any other attempt is like trying to pick up a piece of shit by the clean end.
It doesn’t matter if it’s a Denial Spirit, or a Love Spirit in denial, they are treated the same way with self-love coming first. By self-love, I mean for your Will that can feel the unloving light and its intent and denials in each encounter and allowing your Will (intuition, feelings and emotions) unconditional expression.
You’re trying to please people that can’t be pleased and help people that can’t be helped.