This meme is one of the “NOT” true New Age Spiritual quotes. To know what love is, you need to know what is NOT love.
To know what unconditional love is, you need to know what denial is. And you can only know, through personal experience, not through hearsay or what you have been taught.
There are infinite forms of love, including love with conditions, which is the love we experience most of the time. Not only in our relationship with others, but ourselves Any form of lies, omission, avoidance and denial makes love conditional. Unconditional love is love that we have only experienced fleeting moments of, and is something that we have yet to experience fully in our relationship with others and everything. It’s also not something that we can only obtain in heave nor whatever after life you believe in. – Shenreed